How to stop being boring ?.
Oh god you are so boring. Don’t get offended with this line. Have you ever felt left out in a group? Felt that you are being ignored and one of your friend told that it’s because you are not that interesting. Not everyone is gifted by nature to be an interesting person and we can’t make any person instantly interesting. But with little effort and keeping some points in our mind we can definitely start being more interesting and get ourselves out of the boring zone. So today I’m going to share what things we can do to become a more interesting person.
How to stop being boring ?.
1.Develop Good Sense of Humour.
Everyone likes to be with a person who can make them laugh. If you can make someone laugh this does not only increase your popularity in your group but also make you more interesting person to be with. No, you don’t have to become a clown to make people laugh or pass insulting comments about someone to make people laugh. To develop good humour, you can watch comedians or join a comedy club and learn what kind of things they say or do that make people laugh. But always keep in mind whatever you say or do doesn’t insult someone or make them feel uncomfortable. This will not only make you look stupid but will also make people to stay away from you. So, make people laugh keeping the above said points in mind and you will instantly become more interesting person.
I need this. I did this. You don’t know what happened with me. What is common in all the above sentences is me. If you always talk about yourself not only people will feel you are boring but will also not listen to whatever things you are saying. People love to talk about themselves they don’t want to talk about you every time. The point is if you can make people feel that you are interested in whatever they are saying or you are say anything that is related to them in positive manner they will engage in the conversation because you made them feel you are interested in them. They will enjoy talking with you and when people enjoy talking with you they will love your company and this will not only increase your confidence but will also make you guy who people love to be with.
3.Explore New Things.
Whether you are boring or not this should be done by everyone. Trying and exploring new things or places develop us as a person. Get yourself out of your comfort zone. When you try and explore new things, this will increase your confidence. You can meet new people and make new friends. People will enjoy your company, will be attracted towards you as you are a guy who doesn’t limit himself to his comfort zone and loves exploring new things. You are a person who know plenty of things that are interesting and others don’t know them. This makes you interesting person to be with and also a centre of attraction in your group.
4.Develop Good Dressing Sense.
Here comes the big one. So, you have good sense of humour and everything I mentioned above in check but your dressing sense is not that good you can still be considered boring when people see you for first time. When people see us for first time they don’t have any idea about us and our personality they see our appearance and develop impression about us. Who want to be judged like this? not me. So, if you wardrobe looks like you live in 90’s or you came from another planet its time to do some shopping. Dress as per the occasion. What that means is select in advance what you are going to wear. This will not only increase your chance of making new relations but will also make you super interesting.
5.Be well Informed.
Another thing you can do to make yourself interesting is keep yourself well-informed about what’s happening in the world you live in. When you keep yourself educated with happenings in the world you have plenty interesting things to say which can make you not only popular in your group but also an interesting guy to be with. You don’t want to get stuck in a situation where a conversation is happening and you know nothing about the topic of conversation. In the above situation your confidence will decrease. You won’t have anything to say in the ongoing conversation and thus you will feel left out and I don’t want this to happen with you. So, keep yourself well-informed and you will be one step closer to becoming an interesting person.
There you have it, things which we can do to stop being boring and start being an interesting guy with whom everyone want to hang out and talk.
Becoming interesting person can’t be done in one day, it takes time. So, if you are a boring guy don’t be disappointed. This does not make you inferior then others. Even I don’t find myself super-duper interesting. But being interesting is trait that you must have so you never feel ignored or left out in your group. Keep working on yourself and you will surely become interesting in no time.
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