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7 things that makes a relationship stronger

Love is beautiful. When we are with our loved ones everything feels so great. The time spend with our partners is precious and so do is our partner. With valentine’s day just few days away. Today I’m going to share 7 things which make a relationship stronger.

7 things that makes a relationship stronger



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7.No spying.

A good relationship is based on trust. There is no place of spying on each other in love. Checking each other’s social accounts and messages not only show that you don’t trust your partner but it also makes your relationship weak. A good partner doesn’t spy but trust his partner.

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6.Giving personal space.

 Second thing which makes a relationship stronger is that you give space to your partner. We all want to spend quality time with our partners. But we must realise that our partners do have other commitments too. They too like you want to spend time with their family, hangout with friends or maybe sometimes their work commitments make it very difficult for them to talk, chat and spend lot of time with you. Understand their situation’s and give them a space and your relationship will always remain strong.

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5.Respect their families.

Another thing which makes a relationship strong is that you respect each other’s family. We all love our family and want our partner to love and respect them. Respecting each other family not only makes the bond with your partner strong but also reduces chances of fights or any misunderstanding because when we are not talking to our partner the family can come to rescue and solve all the misunderstandings and thus save the relationship.

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4.Respect each other.

Another thing which makes a relationship stronger is that you respect your partner. You respect them as person, their decisions. You don’t force your decisions on them. Everyone wants to get respected. No matter what is your gender. Respect your partner and his decisions. I’m not saying respect all the decisions which might be stupid. Judge and evaluate the decisions and then make a choice. Don’t let the ego decide what is right.

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3.You don’t compare.

When you are in a relationship you don’t compare your partner with anyone else like your friend’s boyfriend/girlfriend. You accept your partner as person with all his ups and downs. The thing is when we compare our partner it not only destroy our happiness but also destroys the relationship .Don’t compare and accept your partner as he/she is.

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2.You don’t cheat.

Another thing which makes a relationship strong is that you don’t cheat on your partner. You don’t flirt with another guy or girl when you are not with your partner. What is the point being in a relationship if you are cheating on your partner? If you are happy are not happy with your partner just say to them directly. Don’t cheat on your partner. We all are mature people and mature people don’t cheat they talk and solve the issues.

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 1.Honesty.

Yes, you read it right! Being honest is the #1 thing which makes a relationship stronger. Say what you feel don’t be dishonest with your partner. If you want them to change any of their habit say to them. Want them to spend more time with you say to them. Anything you feel that is making you upset say to your partner. By being honest you can work things out. You can understand each other better and thus makes your relationship stronger



CONCLUSION

There you have it, 7 things which makes a relationship stronger.

Love is precious and lucky are those who gets it. So, enjoy each and every moment with your partner and your life will be awesome. Till next time happy valentines’ day each and every one of you. I hope you and your partner enjoy each and every moment of this day.

 Let me know what according to you make a relationship stronger in the comments below and if you have any suggestion or question you want to give feel free to say it.  





How to stop being nice and getting being used?

Being nice to someone is great. We all must be kind and nice to people. But sometimes being nice makes our life very difficult. Don’t get offended by the statement above. The point is sometimes in order to be nice we sacrifice our happiness and get emotionally exhausted. And I don’t want you to feel being exhausted and broken just because you are a nice person. Sometimes we must avoid being nice in order to protect our self from being used and get emotionally manipulated. So today I am going to share tips on how to stop being a nice guy and avoid being used.

How to stop being nice and getting being used?

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Tip 5: Stop imagining.

If I did not help him/her our friendship will be over. If I did not help he or she will hate me. He/she will get hurt. No one will like me. If your mind thinks like this then the first thing you must do in order to protect yourself from being nice guy and getting used is to learn to stop imagining the situations you will face if you did not help someone. This do not only destroy your mental peace but also make you do things which you do not want to do but you had to do them just because of your imagination and overthinking. Stop imagining everything will be ok and if any of the above imagination do comes true then don’t be sad because someone was forcing you to do those things which you did not wanted to do.

 

 

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Tip 4: Learn to see difference whether someone really needs your help or is just pretending to need help.

Can you take my dog out for walk I am busy chatting with my gf/bf? Your answer in this situation’s must be a big “No”. Analyse the situation. See what’s the situation really is? Does the person really require your help or is just using you? If the answer is he/she is pretending to need help then you must not help him/her. These kinds of people use you for being nice and as a result you get emotionally and psychologically exhausted. You do not need such people in your life. Stop helping these people who are just using your kindness for their selfish motives.

 

 

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Tip 3: Realise your choice does matter.

Another thing you must learn in order to stop being nice guy and getting used is to know your choice does matter. You have the right to say no. If you do feel you don’t want to help the person then you must say no to him/her. Without giving any explanations. You do not have to please people every time. I am not saying if person genuinely need your help and he/she asks for help then you can say no. That is being rude and you should help him/her if the problem is really big and he/she genuinely needs your help.

 

 

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Tip 2: Don’t be sorry if you haven’t made any mistake.

Another tip for stop being nice guy and getting used by other is you should not be sorry if you haven’t made a mistake. There are times when people blame you for everything that went wrong just because you did not help them. You don’t have to be sorry if you haven’t made any mistake. You do not have to be sorry to those people who are using you and your kindness. Only they themselves are responsible for what has happened to them.

 

 

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Tip 1: Stand up for yourself.

The #1 tip for stop being nice and getting used is to learn to stand up for yourself. Any one can give you advice, tips for stop getting used because of being nice guy. But no one can teach you how to stand up for yourself if you are being used because of being nice person. Stand up for yourself when you feel being used. It does not matter what the person might think and feel. What matters is your happiness and I can say from my experience getting used by someone because you are a nice person is the worst feeling in the world. It kills your happiness, confidence, destroys you emotionally and mentally. I don’t want this to happen to you trust me its really not a good feeling. So stand up for yourself because only you can stop other people from using you .

 

CONCLUSION

There you have it, few tips on how to stop being nice and getting being used.

Being nice is the greatest trait one can have. Do not stop being nice just because you were used and you have bad experiences. Learn from those mistakes and help those who really needs your help. If you are nice person be proud of yourself because you are really awesome.

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How to identify are your friends really your friends

Nothing is more beautiful then the time we spend with our friends. Nothing can take place of the memories you have with your friends. we laugh with them., cry with them. We share our secrets with them. we tell them our dreams and desires. We all make friends at different phases of our life. But not all friends are worth having. A good friend can give you millions of beautiful moments to remember. But some friends can destroy the happiness inside you. So, today I am going to share tips on how to identify whether your friends are really your friends?

 

 How to identify are your friends really your friends

 

 

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5.They only show up when they need you.

The first thing you should keep in mind to identify whether your friends are really your friend is when they need you. If your friend only needs you when they need favours from you and rest of time you are in there ignore list then he/she is not your friends. Honestly, I had such people in my life. Being with them screwed my happiness I never felt like they were my friends all they need was favours from me and rest of time I never existed from them. Does asking for favours is wrong? No. I’m not saying if a friend asks for favours from you he/she is not your friend and you should never help them. What I want to say is if the person only needs you when he/she needs favours and rest of time act like you don’t exist in his friends list then you don’t deserve such people in your life as they are not really your friends and being with them will only destroy your happiness.

 

 

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4.Gossip about you behind your back.

Hey do you know what he did last week? Do you know he/she has crush on him/her? Another thing which separates true friends from fake friends is they never gossip behind your back and in front act like they are your friends. Gossiping behind back is not acceptable. So, if you know someone who you consider as your friend is gossiping about you behind your back then he/she is not your friends. This not only destroys your happiness but also destroys your image in front of other people you may know. Does a person who do not gossips exist? Can we find him/her? The answer is No. The thing is we as human love to do gossips and if someone says he/she has never done gossips is probably lying.  The take away point is don’t be friends with someone who just lives to do gossips or is continuously gossiping about you behind your back.

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3.Leaves you in tough situations.

Another thing which makes your friends not really your friends is they leave you when you need them the most. We all went through tough situations in some point of our life. That’s the time when you need the support of your loved ones the most and if someone who you consider as your friends have left you in tough situation’s is not your friend. I’m not saying that if the person is stuck in bigger problem than your problem, did not show up then he /she is not your friend. I’m saying if someone leaves you alone in every tough situation and then come back when everything is normal then this a person who is definitely not your friend.

 

 

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2.They make fun of you.

Hey you made fun of me you are not my friend. I’m blocking you. This is not what I am saying. We as friends make fun of our friend’s crack pranks and jokes with them and this is completely fine. But if the person who you consider as your friends jokes radar is continuously showing you in the range, then this a person who is not your friend. He/she is only insulting and trying to gain everyone’s attention through you. Honestly, I have gone through this when I was in school and is something that completely destroys your self confidence and make you feel you are useless. I don’t want this to happen with you so if your so-called friends always make fun of you throw him out of your life. You don’t deserve such people in your life.

 

 

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1.Encourage you to do things you don’t want to do or you should not do.

Come on do it men/girl I’m your friend. Do it it’s fun. Knock knock did you just saw a flash back in you mind. The person who you saw in the flash back is not your friend I guarantee that. If your friends encourage you to do things which you don’t want to do or you should not do is someone who is definitely not your friend. I’m not saying if your friend is asking you to face your fear or encouraging you to improve and challenge yourself to become better is not your friend. He/she is definitely your friend. But if he/she is encouraging you to do all wrong things you don’t want to do like smoking, drinking, taking drugs, breaking laws then he/she is not your friend. Stay away from such people these are the people who are capable of landing themselves an you in serious big troubles and problems.

 

CONCLUSION

There you have it, tips to identify are your friends really your friends.

Friends are integral part of our life’s. We make friends in every phase of life like in school, college, in job. Yes, there can be many people who have above mentioned traits but you can’t avoid them because either due to your job or due to being in same friend’s circle. But we can surely maintain a healthy distance from. This will not only save your happiness but will also make you feel more confident about yourself.

 

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How to stop being boring ?.

Oh god you are so boring. Don’t get offended with this line. Have you ever felt left out in a group? Felt that you are being ignored and one of your friend told that it’s because you are not that interesting. Not everyone is gifted by nature to be an interesting person and we can’t make any person instantly interesting. But with little effort and keeping some points in our mind we can definitely start being more interesting and get ourselves out of the boring zone. So today I’m going to share what things we can do to become a more interesting person.

 

How to stop being boring ?.

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1.Develop Good Sense of Humour.

Everyone likes to be with a person who can make them laugh. If you can make someone laugh this does not only increase your popularity in your group but also make you more interesting person to be with. No, you don’t have to become a clown to make people laugh or pass insulting comments about someone to make people laugh. To develop good humour, you can watch comedians or join a comedy club and learn what kind of things they say or do that make people laugh. But always keep in mind whatever you say or do doesn’t insult someone or make them feel uncomfortable. This will not only make you look stupid but will also make people to stay away from you. So, make people laugh keeping the above said points in mind and you will instantly become more interesting person.

 

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2.Interested.

I need this. I did this. You don’t know what happened with me. What is common in all the above sentences is me. If you always talk about yourself not only people will feel you are boring but will also not listen to whatever things you are saying. People love to talk about themselves they don’t want to talk about you every time. The point is if you can make people feel that you are interested in whatever they are saying or you are say anything that is related to them in positive manner they will engage in the conversation because you made them feel you are interested in them. They will enjoy talking with you and when people enjoy talking with you they will love your company and this will not only increase your confidence but will also make you guy who people love to be with.

 

 

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3.Explore New Things.

Whether you are boring or not this should be done by everyone. Trying and exploring new things or places develop us as a person. Get yourself out of your comfort zone. When you try and explore new things, this will increase your confidence. You can meet new people and make new friends. People will enjoy your company, will be attracted towards you as you are a guy who doesn’t limit himself to his comfort zone and loves exploring new things. You are a person who know plenty of things that are interesting and others don’t know them. This makes you interesting person to be with and also a centre of attraction in your group.

 

 

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4.Develop Good Dressing Sense.

Here comes the big one. So, you have good sense of humour and everything I mentioned above in check but your dressing sense is not that good you can still be considered boring when people see you for first time. When people see us for first time they don’t have any idea about us and our personality they see our appearance and develop impression about us. Who want to be judged like this? not me. So, if you wardrobe looks like you live in 90’s or you came from another planet its time to do some shopping. Dress as per the occasion. What that means is select in advance what you are going to wear. This will not only increase your chance of making new relations but will also make you super interesting.

 

 

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 5.Be well Informed.

Another thing you can do to make yourself interesting is keep yourself well-informed about what’s happening in the world you live in. When you keep yourself educated with happenings in the world you have plenty interesting things to say which can make you not only popular in your group but also an interesting guy to be with. You don’t want to get stuck in a situation where a conversation is happening and you know nothing about the topic of conversation. In the above situation your confidence will decrease. You won’t have anything to say in the ongoing conversation and thus you will feel left out and I don’t want this to happen with you. So, keep yourself well-informed and you will be one step closer to becoming an interesting person.

 

 

CONCLUSION

There you have it, things which we can do to stop being boring and start being an interesting guy with whom everyone want to hang out and talk.

 

Becoming interesting person can’t be done in one day, it takes time. So, if you are a boring guy don’t be disappointed. This does not make you inferior then others. Even I don’t find myself super-duper interesting. But being interesting is trait that you must have so you never feel ignored or left out in your group. Keep working on yourself and you will surely become interesting in no time.

 

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7 Types of People You should avoid In Life to Be Happy.

We come across many people in our life. Some make us happy and some emotionally drain us. Some give us lovable memories and some make us think why in the world I met this person? In order to live a happy life without being unhappy and mentally or emotionally drained, we must people that make us feel like emotionally or mentally drained. So today we are going to discuss, what kind of people should we avoid in our life for being happy in our life?

 

7 Types of People You should avoid In Life to Be Happy

 

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 1.The Manipulator’s

Yes, we all come across this kind of people in our life. These are the people who show themselves as your friend but in back side of there brain they are not. They tend to make complex situations in front of you, making you do things you would never have done in first place. All they want is achieve their motives through you and then leave you with all the problems that might have been created. So, if you don’t want to find yourself in any such conditions stay away from these types of people.

 

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2.Mr perfect.

oh god. You are not doing it right, let me tell you how its done. Ever meet such people. I have. A person who help others is an angle of god and I’m not talking about these types of person here. I’m talking about persons who believe no one can do a job with perfection like they do. These people believe that whatever others people do is wrong and only way of doing is correctly is there way. Yes, giving an opinion is another thing but saying there is only one way to do a task and that’s my way is   really annoying and confidence destroyer. These kinds of people make you feel useless as you lack the skills they have, which in result destroys your confidence. Confidence is what make us stand against this bad world. So, we should definitely avoid people as I call them “MR. Perfect”.

 

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3.King /Queen of Gossips.

Did you hear this about him? You know she was dating two people at same time. Nothing gives you right to gossip about others. If someone told you there secret or you know a secret about someone, this does not give you the right to gossip about them. These are the type of people who completely destroys one’s image just for the sake of their entertainment or for any other reason which they feel make them justified for doing gossip about them. Gossiping is not cool and can make you land up in situation which you never dreamed to be in. So, avoid people who gossips.

 

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4.Mr/miss show-off.

Check my limited-edition watch. Have you seen my new iPhone? yes as people we like to show off a little and that’s ok. If you don’t do it every single time you got something extraordinary. The thing is that such people make you feel deprived of things they have. The make you feel insecure about what you have. This thing can surely destroy a healthy relationship if done continuously.so, if you any person like this better stay away from them.

 

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5.The short temper.

People with short temper, I personally don’t like. Such people can make things which might make you angry like joking about you, but when table turn arounds and you make a joke about them, the bomb blast. How could you say thing like this about me? apologise right now or I will knock you out. Scary, right who wants to be with a person who is ready for a fight every time you say anything about them. So better stay away from this kind of people.

 

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6.Liars.

We all make mistakes and this make us lie. It is ok little lies don’t harm anyone. But there are some people who only says lies every time you ask something to them, probable reasons’ it’s their hobby, you are not their friend or any other thing. But the point is no matter what relation it is truth is the base of it and lies are the dynamite under that base and when this dynamite explodes relations are destroyed and hearts are broken. Leaving behind sleepless nights and lifelong wound .so better stay away from the type of people who only lies.

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6.seasonals.

Hey, how are you I was thinking can you do me a favour. Knock knock. Yes, the person whose thought came into your mind after reading this point is the one whom you should not be with anymore. Yes, there are few people who don’t have the power to help you when you need help. But I’m talking about the ones who just call you for favours and rest of the time busy in their own fancy world. Being with such people is just destroys your happiness and waste your time which you could have spent in finding real people who are genuinely interested in you and don’t just want favours from them. So, if you have these kinds of people in your life its time to get yourself up and move away from them for your own good.

 

CONCLUSION

There you have it guys, types of people you should stay away from to always be happy.

As a human we have to deal with such people in different areas like in office or someone in your family. Yes, we can’t do about such people in this world, we like it or not we will face such people in our life and deal with them due to either being professionally bonded or either the person is part of your family. Deal with them guys but don’t let them ruin your happiness and try to maintain a healthy distance from them whenever possible and you will always feel positive and happy. And if its about friendship or relationship trust me guys it’s not worth it, there many awesome people in this world then these kind of people

 

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5 steps to being more confident

 

 

Confidence we all want to be confident or increase our confidence. Being centre of attraction, likable by everyone or for just being guy who can tackle any given situation through his confidence and build a life of his or hers dream. If you believe you can do what it takes to be confident then here are my top 5 ways that can make you more confident.

5 steps to being more confident

 

 5: Never say “I can’t do it”

If you want to increase your self-confidence need to delete this line from your system. This is a line that we all use as an excuse to escape from tough situations. Like completing maths assignment in which you aren’t that good or like asking a girl for date that you like or any other tough situation. The thing is that when we don’t have confidence then we start assuming, making explanation and then finally end up saying “I can’t do it”. So next when you find yourself in such conditions then instead of giving up directly try to fight the condition with a thinking that “I can do it”. Yes, you might still fail but giving up without trying is still a failure.

 

 

4: Become healthier and fit.

Nothing more is the biggest sinner of lack of confidence is an unhealthy and unfit body according to me. Being a fat child in my childhood nothing destroyed my self confidence then my unfit body. An unhealthy lifestyle and lack of exercise make a person unhealthy and unfit. Get your diet in check, join gym if you can, do some sort of cardio this would not only make you fit but also make you less prone to diseases too and in return also make you more confident.

 

 

3: Take up new challenges.

Scared of challenges? Yes, we all are up to some degree afraid of challenges. Who want to take challenge that they can’t do? But challenges are not only challenges they are also the way to personal growth and making us more confident. It does not matter what kind of challenge it is. Whether you challenge to do 4 sets of 20 push-ups and 30 min cardio everyday if you don’t go to gym, or something like talking to a girl you like but afraid to talk with. Just challenge yourself, even if you fail don’t give and start taking even more challenges in matter of no time you will start seeing more confident you.

 

 

3: Stop trying to please everyone.

We all want to be liked and respected by everyone. There are many person’s in this world that no matter how hard you try, you can’t make them happy. This decrease our self-worth, we start thinking, assuming and ending up loosing the people who make us feel good about ourselves and making us less confident.Next time be the person you are and not the person everyone want you to be to be likeable by them.This will increase the quality of people in your life ,make you feel good about yourself and thus increase your confidence.

 

 

 2: Remove toxic people from life.

Another biggest factor that can hinder the growth of your confidence is, yes, the toxic people in your group, workplace or any other place you hang out. These are the kind of people like might take you for granted, do back bitching about you or others, or the people how might just use for there own benefits and then take the credit and forget you till the next they need you. Leave such people, break friendships with them, if you can’t try to be in less contact with these kinds of people not only make us less confident and decrease our self-worth, but also make or life a living hell.

 

 

1: Gain more and more knowledge

Everyone can be concluded guilty for this. Who likes to study newspaper watch news and other things like this? But when we interact with others and they come up a topic that you not familiar about then suddenly our confidence drops. We don’t have anything to say. This not only make us feel left out in the conversation but also decrease our confidence. So, make yourself more knowledgeable learn from news, magazine’s or newspaper. This not only make you the guy who knows what’s happening in the world but also the guy one can look forward to keep himself updated. A better knowledgeable and confident guy.

 

 

CONCLUSION

There you have it, 5things you should look out for if you want to become more confident. Not only this thing makes you confident but also make you feel good about yourself. confidence can’t be built in week its life long process but these tips will surely increase your confidence one level up.

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